Watching from the sidelines

“It was by being out of the game that my son was better able to appreciate how best to play when in it.” Some takeaways… Make the most of the opportunity change gives you, instead of becoming caught up in feelings of negativity. Taking a step outside of your everyday position can help you see things […]

Lessons from swim class

“Life brings changes, many of which are foisted unrequested and unwanted upon us.” Some takeaways… Never underestimate the importance of familiarity and trust. Change is constant and often unexpected and unwanted. Reframing the situation can break negative patterns and create positive new ones. Positive role models can make you change your own behaviour.   I […]

Lessons from the quiet coach

“A small correction early on avoids an escalated situation later. The longer the situation remains unchecked, the less it can be questioned later.” Some takeaways… Sensitivity to different cultural backgrounds is crucial for those in a multicultural environment. Left unchecked, an unwanted behaviour will find its own level. Once a culture has formed, it can […]

Note to self – spend less time cooking next Christmas!

  5-10 minute read “Adjusting my plans to give my son what he actually wanted meant we enjoyed a wonderful Christmas Day playing together AND we still got a great Christmas dinner!” Some takeaways… Understand the demand – think about whether your audience really wants what you are producing. Be prepared to change tack if […]